I have to admit to you, since I came out of the closet I’ve classified myself as a “total” something. I’ve visited both sides of the pool and typically find myself more comfortable on either the shallow or deep ends. Lately, I’ve been dipping my toes in the middle and have uncovered numerous reasons why being versatile is way better than I thought.
Here are a few:
#1) If I don’t feel like bottoming, sex can happen anyway. Let’s face it. Sometimes you really don’t feel like taking the time to get yourself together – it takes some effort to prep. If you were a total bottom, this might be a dead end as far as penetration, but for a versatile guy, it’s just a slight re-adjustment. Penetration is almost always on the menu, no matter which direction it’s coming from.
#2) I’ve learned to be an expert top AND an expert bottom because most of the time, a man will think I’m really good at one thing and only okay at the other. It’s weird when gay guys label themselves vers-bottom or vers-top as if to say they’re more this or that. Personally, I’ve found that the best sex comes from a fair and balanced ride on either side of the boat. I consider myself a really good top as well as a really good bottom. I know how to submit and dominate – a trait that usually surprises the man I’m with.
#3) My sex life is way better with boyfriends. When I’m dating a guy, we tend to have amazing sex lives. Because I’m strictly monogamous, my man and I love to experiment on higher levels with each other. Being versatile has allowed me to expand my limits with various kinks and sexy ideas we want to try. It’s fantastic.
#4) I always tickle a man’s fantasies without even trying. When you tell a man you’re a bottom, he’s only going to think about f**king you. When you tell a man you’re a top, he’ll only imagine getting f**ked by you. But when you say you’re versatile, he’s going to imagine everything at once, which will make his imagination go crazy.
#5) I don’t pretend to be anything I’m not. It never ceases to amaze me how many gay guys feel the need to classify themselves as one thing in order to get attention. They think in order to truly attract a man, they have to deliver a label. The truth of the matter is exaggerating or pretending to be something you’re not takes out all the mystery.
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SOURCE: Gay Guys
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