(IMAGE) How to Gain Sex Appeal Without Ever Going to the Gym!

By: David Artavia
GAY GUYS

Sex appeal is hard to come by because it’s ingrained within us. We can’t describe why we’ve fallen for the barista down the street, our sexy neighbor who helps us take out the trash, or that one Uber driver with a permanent smile. It’s more than just confidence. They have it.

But this “it” thing isn’t attained at the gym. Sure you might be super attracted to a man with a chiseled body, but that’s not sex appeal. They’re eye candy, and candy is always eaten eventually. If you want sex appeal, no need to go to the gym.


Here’s how to get it. Do the work:

#1) Have a distinct personality.

Think of life as a really long melodrama, what character “type” would you be cast as? Are you the leading man, goofy friend, Mobster with a heart of gold, the one with all the ideas, observant writer, sexy flirt, nerd, high strung weirdo, rebel, wandering heartthrob, or airhead athlete? A good casting director can’t cast a movie without seeing some kind of archetypical quality in you.

Try working on displaying your essence. I’m sure you already have a great personality, so keep it. Never prevent someone from knowing exactly what he or she is getting when you’re around. Inconsistency is NOT sexy, so be a straight shooter with who you are and stop changing to make others comfortable. Be yourself.
The goal is for me to walk by a store, see something, and say “Wow. ______ would love that.” The reason why I knew you’d love it is because I know you. You’re distinct and original enough for me to recognize your essence even when you’re not around. Find the core of who you are and put it up for display.

 #2) Fix your Resting Bitch Face. Now.
 
I’m about to change your life. If your resting face looks like you just smelled a dog bust wind, why haven’t you taken the time to change it? I’ll make it easier for you: start by lifting both sides of your lips to form a half-moon. You know, like a smile.

Here’s a tip: Take a video on your laptop for a few minutes while you’re on Facebook. Take a look and see. This is what you look like when you’re not paying attention to yourself. Would you approach this person? Do you need some serious brow fixing? Lip shaping? Eye opening?

 #3) Stop cussing so much.
 
I get it. I curse like a sailor too, but sometimes you need to take time and work on a bit of class. Even if it doesn’t last long (which it never does), it’s sexy to see a man who can be funny, express emotion, and learn how to resolve conflict without sounding like an episode of Jerry Springer. You don’t need to sound like a nun, but at least try and sound like a gentleman.

Oh and while we’re at it, why not rid ourselves of words like “um,” “like,” and “so…” These are filler words we use when we’re not sure what to say. When taken out of our vocabulary, we’ll appear much smarter.

#4) Support people in their ventures. 
 
Does someone need help moving? Volunteer. Do they need an extra hand for an event they’re planning? Do it! Are they seeking advice for a potential anything? Help them through it. Be a friend and don’t be a flake. When you show yourself as a person that people can depend on, you will earn the trust of the world – one person at a time. And trust is sexy.

 #5) Never shame anyone for anything.
 
This is the first step towards becoming a cynical asshole, which is not okay. It doesn’t matter if someone did something carelessly, you should never use it as an opportunity to rip him or her apart or make them feel bad about themselves. Brush it aside and turn it into something funny, not a chance to appear smarter or better than them because you could have done “better.” Shame is really powerful and over time can build to create resentment. Don’t let it get that far.

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